black tie or black jeans?

some folks have inquired as to what might be appropriate attire for the ceremony and reception....while we are not proponents of the black-jean look (or for that matter any denim, shorts, or tennis shoes), beyond that we take the perspective of "wear" what will make you comfortable...you'll be on "island time"

however, anticipating that this may not be enough guidance for most people, the following is gretchen and rich's guide to appropriate wedding attire:

FOR THE MEN:



even the groom won't be wearing one of these (ergo, please don't wear a tuxedo...)




but, the groom IS trying his best to leave the bike spandex at home and go this route. however, a suit is certainly not required for our guests.



wear one of these if you're so inclined, add a jacket, leave the jacket...the world is your oyster. (but if you do go the tie route, please know smiley faces are not a pre-req.)




and of course, the shirt and slacks look...sophisticated, but still screaming "hey people, i'm super laid back underneath it all", this too would be fine


finally, while we can't argue with this classic look (!), it ain't gonna cut it at the reception




FOR THE WOMEN:
the bride will be dressed in something long and white(ish), but we don't recommend duplicating this look, or people may look at you funny or try to make you kiss rich.




wear something like this if you feel so inclined, but just make sure that you're still comfortable enough to boogey down after dinner! (i.e., formal attire is not required!)




yes...dressy, fancy, and fun! -->















these work, too...






if you wear something along these lines, you'll probably feel underdressed - not to mention that you'll be dreaming about getting back to that office cubicle. -->



oh, and ladies (and men), the island can get a bit chilly as the sun goes down, so don't forget to pack a sweater or wrap to keep warm.

hope this helps, but if you have specific questions, please give us a call or email. we always love to hear from our guests!